LE "impasses" LOVE VIRTUAL Zinipubblicata Daniela by Daniela Zini on Sunday, November 7, 2010 at 13:28
Hardly, crossing the street women and men, to address the word to them inviting them to talk at the table of a bar sipping a drink, the less you approach them at random, in several attempts.
in virtual reality is possible.
You choose a nickname among those who are connected at the moment, what arouses more curiosity about the originality or links to nebulous memories: a freedom of approach is very unlikely in real life every day, a pleasant and intriguing.
Sometimes, I say sometimes, tuning is instantaneous.
is falling in love?
More and more people spend their time on the network to discuss and flirt with other people.
More and more people are looking for love on the Internet.
Love is virtualization?
You can feel love for a person ever?
You can find the ideal person with a simple mouse click? Why we prefer loving
behind a computer screen rather than love "face à face"?
What we really try on the net love, flirt, or we have hidden motives?
To answer these questions, I turned into a reporter (some gossips would say on Sunday).
Some women have told me that the net has allowed them to regain confidence in themselves. Often, after a break it feels bad, do not want. Since its entry to the net, a woman receives, in general, many messages. This flatters his ego and thus makes it possible to address, "in real life," the game of seduction. The net is only a first step towards reconstruction and often, the contacts do not remain that of the virtual flirtations. Other
I have confessed that the net was a means to escape from a newspaper too overwhelming. I was surprised to see that married people using sites of meetings. Not really meet someone, but when you're in the wrong pair and you do not wish to betray your partner, or desire to plant all the net offers a safety valve where you can whisper, or have a virtual adventure, very simply have an ear that hears us complacent and do not know, do not narrate anything to our entourage.
Some Amazons and certain Don Giovanni, the net is simply a new place dredging, which offer adventure. Because it is anonymous and hidden behind a screen, the sous-entendus are quick and you're ready to go à la vitesse supérieure, things go very fast: it is the easiest way to offer the parentheses coquines. And also because the anonymity is king here, it protects your life and your pair, if you are married.
But what triggers the spark of being in virtual?
is obvious: the contact of the words. There are minds, not bodies, who fall in love with each other. In addition, the facility that makes this possible is certainly determined by unobtrusively with the contact is proposed: it is not a ringing telephone inappropriate when the head is watching you or your spouse controls. The contact is when and how individuals can and want, and this makes everything much more comfortable and pleasant ...
dialogue deepens, born confidences and trust, and custom to meet at a certain time, almost by accident, or even making an appointment. Born intimacy, the feeling in the mirror. In truth, you go looking for themselves or their own copy nell'interlocutore: taking the form of a love story? If
then takes over the exchange of phone calls and a desire to talk to every day ...
Here I stop.
There is no doubt is an old story of ordinary reality, already long recognized thousands of years.
you think a virtual love and betrayal?
I think the real betrayal hotels in the depths of ourselves, in this sense, a healthy friendship that becomes a virtual "love" can be a "betrayal" at least on moral grounds. Imagine a similar situation that you see in the place currently occupied by your partner's real if you came to know it (knowing how intensely you live your relationship this virtual) you would feel betrayed / a ...?
Judges and lawyers have concluded that, under certain conditions, including infidelity apparent, the approaches of love, an e-mail, leading to discomfort, offense against the dignity and honor of the other spouse, are due to damages.
In the writings of thinkers and philosophers can be found three Greek words used to describe love: eros, philia, AGAPE.
close on the internet does not allow access to this great spiritual navigation that is offered free to our lives.
In conclusion, I will say surfez, éclatez-vous and profits at the bottom of what the new technologies, but also take care not to live in a virtual world, we must always, sooner or later fall in the real world, even if it is not all fun days. Attention also to the big lies about your physical appearance, will not be disappointed if you find that most burning for real. And do not forget that, as in real life, some ladies and some gentlemen lie about their married life in their nets to catch you! Daniela Zini
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